Who Am I?

Spoiler alert!! I'm no Cinderella, I turn into a sloth anytime after 6pm I wear my comfy's and wait patiently till my kids go to bed, so I can write. I enjoy Sex, I enjoy relationships and I love a good Love story.I do have kids! I live in a city that's known for 'Gurt Big Uns'

I'm not an expert, I certainly haven't studied the art of sex, no I don't have flings or one night stands and I'm not a professional!

I am just your average women, I've lived before I settled, I know my body and mind well, I have my hang ups and I'm never really been afraid to talk about Sex and all that comes with it! The Good, The Bad and the fucking Ugly!

I'm a bit blunt! And I'm proud, I think we don't communicate enough with ourselves, our partners or friends about SEX.

Imagine going to a salon and the hairdresser does what ever they want to your hair, without you giving direction or choice!

Imagine a gardener who never asked, ‘How do you like your bushes trimmed?’

It just wouldn't happen, would it? But when it comes to sex, the majority of us think we know what our partner wants! We just assume because it's easier then asking for feedback, or talking about what we like or what we really want!

So this is all of what I write and talk about.

"Not being afraid to be bold and say what sometimes we are afraid to say.

Edgy is fine - I'm not a prude by any stretch of the imagination - but what's wrong with a good ol' belly laugh? I miss that." - Carol Burnett

I am the guide to getting it, keeping it, laughing about it and getting off.

Lilly xox